The quiet grief of adult friendship:

However, somewhere between “Let’s catch up soon” and “Sorry, life has been hectic”, adult friendship became one of the most emotionally significant and least discussed losses of modern life.

Boy I just keep reading this article and it resonating hard for me. Thanks Kottke as always

Some days you just need a little Dead Milkmen to deal with the big lizard in my backyard

Post storm mornings in the desert

I don’t think I am in Tucson anymore